Feb. 14th, 2026 09:33 pm

Come to Dark Souls

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We have terrible platforming, shortcut porn, hostile shrubbery, BOXRATS!!!, extremely smashable vases, “amazing chest ahead” (male), “amazing chest ahead” (female), “amazing chest ahead” (mimic), weirdly sexualized moaning (male only), repeatedly falling down inside a giant hollow tree to your death, Moss Lady, a magic medieval snakeskin-covered gramophone, hidden areas hidden behind other hidden areas hidden behind illusory walls, combat skirts (unisex), giant snakes with horse teeth, pretending to be an egg, quite a lot of jank, a very angry elderly cat who scolds you in bad faux-Shakespearian and is also a faction leader, the secret lake underneath the bottom of the world, “jolly co-operation,” chibi mindflayers, clams full of skulls, a trident that lets you do a silly little dance, ridiculous ragdoll corpse physics, a really cool double helix staircase probably based on the Château de Chambord, ball/crab things that turn up unexpectedly in your game and try to magic missile you because somebody in another game lost some stuff, getting punched to death by mushrooms, and Gender.

This is such a weird game (complimentary).
Feb. 14th, 2026 12:27 pm

Lash Larue

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Way back in 2008, when I was pretty new to LJ and didn't quite know how it worked, I saw that I had a friend request from someone named [personal profile] lash_larue. I didn't know them, but the name intrigued me, because only an old movie buff (like me) would even have heard of Lash Larue, and only a funny and interesting person would choose LL as their pseudonym.

So I friended lash_larue back, and it was one of the best fandom moves I ever made. In addition to being a fine writer and a stalwart supporter of all her friends' LJs and fests and fics, Lash was a wonderful human being, kind and generous, who became a close and valued friend.

You've probably taken note of my use of past tense above. I'm so very sorry to report that [personal profile] lash_larue died of complications from COVID and other conditions on Tuesday, February 10. Her beloved wife P was with her when she passed peacefully in the hospital.

I can't tell you how much I'll miss Lash. She was so damned funny, so refreshingly outspoken, so considerate, so larger-than-life, such a vivid presence both on LJ/DW and in RL. She'd call me periodically, and we'd bemoan the state of the nation, but she never failed to have me laughing by the end of the conversation. She was always there with emotional support and wit and wisdom, and the loss of her is huge.

I met Lash once in person, in Florida at an HP fandom gathering she organized at a rented house we called "Crone Manor." "Fun" doesn't begin to describe it. She went all-out to make sure everyone had a wonderful time, and we did. Just one of her many lovely gestures: I had mentioned on LJ that I love flower-flavored foods, and Lash made me an utterly delicious rose-flavored cheesecake. That's just a tiny example of her exuberant generosity.

And did I mention that she was funny? Outspoken? Read the opening paragraph of her description of herself on her LJ profile. It's the essence of the Lash I knew and loved.

Just a human being who occasionally steps through the looking glass. I am WAY over 18. I have socks over 18. I was born in the USA and right now I'm not too proud of that. In the 1950's, barely, like early. Just now I'm not very proud of that. I wrote a crack!fic about Kennedy and Kruschev in third grade and got detention for it. I haven't changed much.

If you are one of Lash's online friends, or if you ever read and enjoyed one of her many excellent stories, or if you had the pleasure of meeting her in person, you'll know just how much both the fandom world and our real world have lost.

And another "if" -- If you have the chance this weekend, lift a glass of your favorite whatever in memory of our dear, irreplaceable [personal profile] lash_larue.
Feb. 14th, 2026 04:47 pm

Our Dear Friend [personal profile] lash_larue ...

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Dear Friends,
After my previous post of January 26, I’ve been in regular contact with Lash’s wife. She has read all your messages to Lash, who was very touched and very happy to know so many people cared about her.

But over the next week, Lash’s situation grew steadily worse. The drastic measure of intubation was taken, and she was kept sedated. Then it became a roller coaster of first doing better, with higher oxygen levels, and then doing worse again, with a fever and a new course of antibiotics.

And now the unthinkable has happened. Our dear friend [personal profile] lash_larue passed away on Tuesday afternoon. P was with her, and the end was very peaceful.

Lash was one of the most extraordinary people I have ever come across, and I consider myself very fortunate to have met her both on LJ and in real life. As I reflect on our times together, I remember her wicked sense of humour, and her uncanny ability to tell a funny story against herself. Lash’s Helpful Household Hints were the stuff of legend. As were her tales of the outrageous things she got up to.

While we were staying at Crone Manor, those stories got even better in telling than they were in writing. Especially when Lash and her soul-sister [personal profile] redbeargrl remembered their youthful exploits. We relative youngsters sat at their feet in awe and we learned and listened, smiling.
I particularly recall the story that combined magnesium and gasoline, and most of us still listened smiling, except for [personal profile] albalark, our resident scientist, who listened with a look of absolute horror.

So here is another Helpful Household Hint: Do not mix these ingredients and then set fire to them..

Everyone who was at one of the two Crone Manors in person will recall those halcyon days and will have memories that will last a lifetime, and Lash was the one who made it all happen. She prepared everything, organized everything, took care of everything and was everywhere at all times to look after our comfort, to the point where we had to use physical force to make her sit down, relax, and enjoy the moment.

And in the world of LJ/DW, too, Lash was a friend extra-ordinaire. She was interested in everything we did and always left a comment to our posts. Frequently, hers was the first comment to appear. She sent supportive messages and her loving presence did so much to turn our LJ circle from a group of assorted Potter fans into a true online family.

Lash was also an extra-ordinary writer. She could do every genre. She wrote light-hearted femslash, but she was also a leading light in the Old Lady Smut Brigade. And she wrote a Fenrir Greyback story that managed to show his human side without excusing him, a feat I’ve never seen repeated.

Was there anything that Lash couldn’t write? We never got the chance to find out. She was game for every challenge. Someone mentioned femslash between two pianos once (believe me, there was a reason) and Lash delivered. She even managed a Dolores Umbridge/Percy Weasley story, and if you haven’t heard Lash doing Umbridge’s voice on a balmy Florida evening at Crone Manor, you haven’t lived.

With her unfailing loyalty, support and kindness, she was a moderator’s dream. In the fourteen years of [community profile] hoggywartyxmas she took part in every edition, commented to every single entry, beta’ed countless stories, and was the life and soul of the Grand Opening.

It was only occasionally that we got glimpses of just how much our little circle meant to her. Lash’s path through life was not always an easy one. Her greatest source of happiness was, first and foremost, her beloved P, who was her sun, her moon, and her bedrock, too. But for Lash, our LJ circle was a source of profound happiness as well, a safe space, a refuge where she could be exactly who she was, and where – she never stopped to marvel at it – she was loved exactly as she was.

The Crone Manors made that beloved, safe space a living reality, and they meant the world to her, as did all of her LJ/DW friends.

I’m so glad she heard all of our messages and knew she meant the world to us, too. I will always remember her friendship, her sense of humour, her warmth and love.

Perhaps the final [personal profile] lash_larue Helpful Household Hint should be:

Whenever we are in trouble, whenever bad things happen to us, let us remember our friend and think, ‘How would Lash respond to this?”

A great light has gone from our world, but as long as people are remembered, they are not truly gone. Let us all keep Lash alive in our memories, and remember our wonderful friend.


Any memories, messages, or thoughts you wish to share will be passed on to P. I know from personal experience the comfort such messages can bring.
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Feb. 13th, 2026 08:34 pm

Daily Happiness

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1. We met our deadline for the big project, so it can move ahead on schedule! For the last couple weeks we've been pretty sure it was going to be okay (and this last week there was really no worry at all), but it was a major stressor since I joined the project last summer, and we did not make the original deadline at the end of the year so this extension was our final final deadline. It's a huge relief to have turned that in to the developers and be able to report to upper management that everything's going well.

2. This morning I was almost home from my walk when I saw a text from Carla saying she was going to get a breakfast burrito. The restaurant is not on my way, but only about a five minute walk from where I was, so I met up with her there and we split a burrito for breakfast.

3. I was looking around to see what all is near the new store when I go to help out next week and saw there's a Shake Shack in the same mall, which reminded me that we wanted to go to Shake Shack and try more of the Korean menu, so we went there tonight. It's a little longer walk than Carla was up for, so we drove, but then after dinner walked around, down to the beach and then through the Promenade.

Everything at Shake Shack was delicious. In addition to the chicken sandwich, which I'd had before, we got the spicy fries with cheese sauce. I'd had them without the cheese before and they were good, but even better with cheese. I also got the gochujang caramel shake, which was also very tasty.

We used to go down to the Promenade all the time years ago, but then just stopped, and now hardly ever go down there, and when we do it's usually just to the first block, where the Apple Store is. This time we did go to the Apple Store but also the other two blocks we don't usually check out, and I had totally forgotten there's a Barnes and Noble there again! There was a huge three story one there years ago, and then that closed (in 2018, apparently), but they opened a new smaller one about a year and a half ago. I had heard something about it, but it's not very relevant to me anymore, so I immediately forgot. We went in and checked it out, though, and it's really nice. Nowhere near as huge as the old one, but still big, and they have a second level in the basement where I bought a new puzzle.

We ended our walk with donuts from Sidecar, which is just about a block from Shake Shack. Brought the donuts home and will have them later. Overall it was a really nice night out and just the sort of thing that I want to do more of. Although there were several empty storefronts, overall the Promenade seemed pretty revitalized and there were a lot of people down there tonight. (It's one of those areas that has gone through multiple booms and busts. When I was really little, it was just called the mall, and then became the old mall when they built a new, indoor mall next to it, and it kind of died off. Then when I was a teenager it was revitalized as the Third Street Promenade, but started dying off again a while back, but seems to be having another revival now.)

4. It's the start of a three day weekend!

5. Molly!

Feb. 13th, 2026 07:05 pm

2/13/2026 Loop Road and Boardwalk

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Yesterday was a complete loss, but all I can do is keep trying. Today I parked at the Loop Road gate just before 9 expecting to walk to up to the road near the Lake, back south by the Boardwalk, Lower Packrat to the Lake, and return on Loop Road. However there was a whole squad of firemen with a noisy pumptruck laying hoses and carrying blowtorches; the huge piles of brush from the earlier clear up are finally being burned. Since I didn't want to walk back up through all the men and equipment, and recalling that it had rained since I did Lower Packrat last Monday and I wasn't confident the trail would be passable anyway, I took the Boardwalk and the service road back up to Loop Road and called it a day. It was quiet in general, nothing specially interesting occurred, and I didn't get a look at the Lake at all. Maybe there was more activity there. The list: )

I'll be there again on Monday unless the forecast rain actually transpires.
Feb. 12th, 2026 09:45 pm

educational privilege, a meme

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A friend did this questionnaire under lock, and it ... seems ... memeable. Props also to [personal profile] jesse_the_k's recent post on being a volunteer English language partner and to the thoughtful replies thereto, which have stirred some thoughts for me as well.

- Adults responsible for your care actively helped facilitate your early learning. (Reading at bedtime, playing educational games, going to child-friendly museums...)
Read more... )
Feb. 12th, 2026 06:36 pm

Daily Happiness

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1. They finally fixed the broken restroom at work! The store does not have enough restrooms. There is one set of gendered multi-stall employee restrooms upstairs, but the men's has only one stall. Downstairs there are multi-stall restrooms by the food court (two stalls in the men's) and two single toilet gender neutral ones on the other side of the store. The single toilet ones are closest to me now that my desk moved, as I just have to pop downstairs and it's right there, but due to some issues with the door/door frame, one of them has been closed since early December, and it has been so awful, especially during the holiday season. But now the door is finally fixed and both are open, so the days I've been at the store this week, there hasn't been a single time where I've had to wait for a toilet. Huzzah!

2. I made an appointment for my tattoo touch-up, now that it's fully healed. Since I'll be out of town half the week next week, I just asked for something the week after, and got set up for two weeks from today.

3. I usually take my lunch to work, but didn't have anything quick and easy to take today, so I planned to buy something, and remembered that they just introduced a roast beef salad, so I got that. It was really good! The dressing said it was truffle wasabi but neither flavor was very strong. I don't care about truffle at all, but I do like wasabi, and could have stood for it to be a bit tangier but I liked it. In addition to the beef and greens, it also had asparagus, baby corn, and tomatoes.

3. Chloe in the blankets again! (The previous picture I posted of her with her head sticking out from the blanket is now my most popular post on bluesky with like 1.7K likes. I normally get like ten lol. I think my previous most popular photos were a couple hundred?)

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If it seems as though Trump plans to steal the midterm elections, you’re right. If it seems as though there’s no way to stop him, you’re wrong. But if you think the institutions we already have are up to the job of stopping him, you’re also wrong.

I’ve been attending Indivisible’s weekly “What’s the Plan?” meetings with co-founders Leah Greenberg and Ezra Levin for almost a year now. Indivisible’s strategy for the whole year is built around the midterm elections:

- making sure the Democrats who are elected are actually going to fight fascism instead of going along with it.
- making sure that the November election is free & fair, that we win, and that the results are enforced.

The critical, unprecedented period will be between Election Day and January 3, 2027, when the new Congress is seated. Indivisible National and other parts of the anti-MAGA movement have been taking advice from scholars of authoritarianism like Erica Chenoweth. They say that one of the most dangerous times for a democracy under threat is right around or after an election that the authoritarians are losing. That’s the point where mass mobilization, *society-wide mobilization*, may be critical.

Chenoweth and their colleagues have found that authoritarian governments will fall when when 3.5% of the population is committed to active, nonviolent resistance. For the U.S., that means we need at least 12 million people ready to make sure that when they try Jan 6 2.0 (and they *will*) it stops, flails, and falls over.

To get to that point we have to BUILD to that point. Think of a major political action as requiring muscle, which needs to be strengthened over time, it can’t just be summoned in a moment.

We KNOW the Trump Regime, the corrupt SCOTUS, and state & local level MAGA will be attacking our right & ability to vote in every way they can. We’ve mostly done what we can already with gerrymandering and counter-gerrymandering, from now on it’s going to be what Leah Greenberg calls legal whack-a-mole, where we all have to be alert to attacks on the right to vote and hit them wherever they come up.

Our tentpole events will be a series of #NoKings rallies, growing in size (numbers from What’s the Plan meeting of January 8, 2026):

• #HandsOff in April ‘25 was 3 million people.
• #NoKings, June ‘25 was 5 million.
• #NoKings2, October ‘25 was 7M.
• #NoKings3 will be March 28, we want 9M people.
• #NoKings4 in the summer, 11M
• #NoKings5 in the fall, leading up to the election, 13 million people – which is over 3.5% of the country.

Each #NoKings event is made up of thousands of local ones, they don’t involved a big march to the seat of power, unlike what you see in smaller, more centralized countries.

All US politics starts at the state and local level, organizing starts local, community is local. And importantly, elections are administered locally. #NoKings will be a way for people to become aware and connect with others in their area to monitor polling places, and to let state & local officials know that they can’t do anything in the dark.

These growing numbers are how we build to a number of people committed to oppose the regime that’s so large that even when they try to steal the election, which they will, even when they don’t want to certify the results, which they won’t, they won’t be able to stop us. Even though we won’t be fighting them with guns.

TLDR: both the doomers & the institutionalists are WRONG. Trump doesn’t have the power to just “cancel the elections”, but existing institutions aren’t enough to ensure that we have meaningful elections and that the results are honored.

We the people, organizing and working together, are what’s going to stop him. Bad news for both doomers & institutionalists: there’s work for *you* to do. Join a local organization--Indivisible, 50501, immigrants’ rights, or your local Democratic, Democratic Socialist, or Working Peoples Parties. Get to know more of the people in your neighborhood and congressional district. Become part of a team.

Here’s the motto Leah Greenberg says we should put on our walls and phone lock screens, to keep our eyes on the prize:
They are losing, so they're going to try to steal the election.
They're gonna fail, because we're gonna stop them.



this is something of a first draft. I'd like advice about how to make it punchier, more like something that would draw eyeballs on substack etc. Where do I need links? Is it structured properly, with the right things at the top?

Where should I put something about how I fit into Indivisible? I'm just a joe-normal member of a joe-normal Indivisible group, this is really reporting based on attending the weekly "What's the Plan meetings for the past year.


ETA: This is now a second draft, incorporating more links and suggestions.
Feb. 11th, 2026 08:26 pm

Daily Happiness

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1. It's the annual insurance open enrollment period at work, and even if we want to keep the exact same plans we currently have, we are required to go in to a session with HR and confirm everything in person, which is annoying, especially as I looked at the calendar and the times they were having a session at the Gardena store were all not great with my schedule. But I saw that there was one at the West LA store today, so last night I messaged the HR guy who is handling it and asked if I could go to that one or if it's just for employees at that location, and he said it was fine, so I popped over there quickly this morning and got that done and then otherwise just worked from home. Plus I hadn't been to that store in several months, and it was nice to see my old employees.

2. I bought a couple sumo tangerines the other day at the store and had one for breakfast this morning and it was so good.

3. Suspicious Gemma! What am I plotting taking her picture like that!?

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We had some stormy weather last night so I went to see if anyone interesting had blown in. The Bufflehead had not been reported immediately previously but the Hooded Merganser girl gang (probably Winter residents), the Mallards, and the Pied-billed Grebes were all expected birds. The only surprise to me was a juvenile Double-crested Cormorant; I would love to know where they were hatched. The list: )

I'm not too sure of that list. Was I not paying attention? It's hard to believe there were no Yellow-rumped Warblers around the Lake, but there were periods of extreme wind, so who knows? From there I drove down to Creekside Park, Alameda County, where there were lots of Yellow-rumped Warblers! It was fixin' to rain when I arrived, and after some beautiful moments of sunshowers, standing under a huge oak watching fine rain blown around and shining in the sun, as I left it began to rain in earnest. Nothing specially interesting there. The Oak Titmice were singing but the Lesser Goldfinches were still flocking rather than pairing up. The list: )

Again, this list seemed lacking, but maybe it was just that sort of day.
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I made a third, failed attempt to see the Green-tailed Towhee at Damon Slough but as so often, there were good birds and I enjoyed myself. The tide was about half down and there were an overwhelming number of shorebirds. I did not make a list for the seasonal wetlands, where there were a few ducks but a great many Long-billed Dowitchers, all of whom flew over to the mud along the Slough where I was standing. I id'd them, Long-billed versus Short-billed, by call, comparing their calls to Sibley's recordings. I don't think they are often id'd by sight; in the hand, sure, but not in the field. Weirdly, it didn't occur to me at the time to check merlin, although later I noticed that it agreed. Scattered amongst the Dowitchers were a few Willets, Marbled Godwits, American Avocets, and Black-necked Stilts, and this was just a peripheral feeding area. When I'd given up on the Green-tailed Towhee I walked over to the viewing platform that looks out on a large expanse of freshly uncovered mud, finding all those plus Dunlin, Least Sandpipers, Black Turnstones, and Black-bellied Plovers, with an array of gulls and terns behind them. It was impressive. The list: )

I hope the rain this week will revive the Garretson Point seasonal wetland as well as Berkeley Meadow. I'm going to wait til next week to go and see, though.

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